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How to shoot your video... Rule # 1: There are no rules.
Use a camera, your computer webcam or your smart phone. Turn it towards you and talk from your heart or from a script. We have all been done a horrible wrong and what our children have to go through is a true tragedy. We need to speak out and fix this.
Ten Questions for making your Targeted Parent’s Video
(I included my personal answers in italics as examples)
NOTE: Your video can be as short or as long as you like and can include 1 or all 10 questions included below or of your own choosing.
1. What is your name and are you an alienated parent/grandparent/sibling/child?
My name is Joe Barrow and I am an alienated father.
2. How long has it been since you have seen your child?
I haven’t seen our daughter in over a year.
3. Did the other parent play a role in interfering with your relationship with your daughter/son/children?
My ex played a major role in interfering with the loving relationship I had with our daughter.
4. Were the court custody orders blatantly ignored by the other parent without being sanctioned or being held accountable for clear violations?
Our court orders were blatantly interfered with and there were no sanctions. Not even a verbal admonishment.
5. Did the family court system (mediator/Judge/commissioner/GAL) fail your family and specifically your child(ren)? Briefly describe if you want.
Our family court system failed our family horribly but especially our daughter. Laws were violated, there was no due process, and allegations were deemed to be facts without evidence.
6. A) Did your ex or the court choose the therapist/psychologist/evaluator in your case?
B) Did that therapist/psychologist/evaluator play a damaging role in your case?
The therapist, Shirley Stutson, was picked by my ex-wife, Christy Garrison. Shirley was remarkably ignorant of the role Christy played in and seemed to be willfully ignorant of the facts of what was going on and refused to acknowledge my ex’s role in the deterioration of my relationship with our daughter even with black and white evidence submitted.
7. How much do you miss your child(ren)?
I miss our daughter more than words can say. Stealing a daughter’s love from a father is one of the most heinous, evil, morally corrupt crimes anyone can commit. Not only because of how devastating it is to lose a child but more-so because what it does to a child. Severing the loving bond between a child and a parent is a heinous act in itself, but to force a child to play an active role in doing so is the worst kind of child abuse.
8. Briefly describe the relationship that you had with your child(ren) before the other parent began interfering with your relationship.
Before Christy began interfering with my relationship I had an amazing relationship with our daughter. It was as close to perfect as any loving parent could imagine. My life was perfect. I remember thinking at one point in my life, before our nightmare began, how nice it was waking up from a pleasant dream to find out my life was a dream in itself. That seemed like such a long time ago.
9. What do you want to tell the world about the Parental Alienation experience?
It’s a brutal nightmare. It feels like you have fallen into a rabbit hole where nothing works as it should. Your child is suffering the worst kind of abuse and you have mental health professionals, our family court system supporting and
10. What do you want to say to your child?
I love you and miss you very much. I got to bed and wake up thinking about you and wondering how you are doing. I miss all the fun and wonderful times we had together laughing, talking and playing. I can’t wait to see you again and enjoy your beautiful smile.
(I included my personal answers in italics as examples)
NOTE: Your video can be as short or as long as you like and can include 1 or all 10 questions included below or of your own choosing.
1. What is your name and are you an alienated parent/grandparent/sibling/child?
My name is Joe Barrow and I am an alienated father.
2. How long has it been since you have seen your child?
I haven’t seen our daughter in over a year.
3. Did the other parent play a role in interfering with your relationship with your daughter/son/children?
My ex played a major role in interfering with the loving relationship I had with our daughter.
4. Were the court custody orders blatantly ignored by the other parent without being sanctioned or being held accountable for clear violations?
Our court orders were blatantly interfered with and there were no sanctions. Not even a verbal admonishment.
5. Did the family court system (mediator/Judge/commissioner/GAL) fail your family and specifically your child(ren)? Briefly describe if you want.
Our family court system failed our family horribly but especially our daughter. Laws were violated, there was no due process, and allegations were deemed to be facts without evidence.
6. A) Did your ex or the court choose the therapist/psychologist/evaluator in your case?
B) Did that therapist/psychologist/evaluator play a damaging role in your case?
The therapist, Shirley Stutson, was picked by my ex-wife, Christy Garrison. Shirley was remarkably ignorant of the role Christy played in and seemed to be willfully ignorant of the facts of what was going on and refused to acknowledge my ex’s role in the deterioration of my relationship with our daughter even with black and white evidence submitted.
7. How much do you miss your child(ren)?
I miss our daughter more than words can say. Stealing a daughter’s love from a father is one of the most heinous, evil, morally corrupt crimes anyone can commit. Not only because of how devastating it is to lose a child but more-so because what it does to a child. Severing the loving bond between a child and a parent is a heinous act in itself, but to force a child to play an active role in doing so is the worst kind of child abuse.
8. Briefly describe the relationship that you had with your child(ren) before the other parent began interfering with your relationship.
Before Christy began interfering with my relationship I had an amazing relationship with our daughter. It was as close to perfect as any loving parent could imagine. My life was perfect. I remember thinking at one point in my life, before our nightmare began, how nice it was waking up from a pleasant dream to find out my life was a dream in itself. That seemed like such a long time ago.
9. What do you want to tell the world about the Parental Alienation experience?
It’s a brutal nightmare. It feels like you have fallen into a rabbit hole where nothing works as it should. Your child is suffering the worst kind of abuse and you have mental health professionals, our family court system supporting and
10. What do you want to say to your child?
I love you and miss you very much. I got to bed and wake up thinking about you and wondering how you are doing. I miss all the fun and wonderful times we had together laughing, talking and playing. I can’t wait to see you again and enjoy your beautiful smile.
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